Tom Sandoval throws an "extra" themed birthday party to encourage his friends to be their best selves, while Stassi and Katie learn they must work with Kristen even though their friendship has ended. Max tries to ban Danica from TomTom for meddling in his relationship, Lisa reconnects with James in the wake of his new sobriety, and Lala's attempt to make amends with Raquel doesn't go as planned.  And Tom Schwartz hosts an unusual memorial for his dead lizard, Daug.